Kids and Their Influence on a Mother's Life

In a woman's heart comes great ambition and dreams. Planning, exploring and fun at times. But what happens when unexpectedly you found out that you are having a baby very soon than expected. Marriage is of no option. Decision making strikes in your mind. Should I keep it, should I let go? You ignore the latter. First trimester, second, and comes third trimester. Everything seems a roller coaster ride. Overwhelming yet exciting. Prior dreams and plans are yet to change. Nine months passed and you are a certified mother now. Every little thing and details of your life greatly changed. Your priorities suddenly focused not just on you alone but for you and your little angel. You may be able to pull it off for few months, or maybe years if you are lucky enough to be a fighter of life and troubles. But you can't hide the feeling of being alone, hopeless, and helpless during those times when you've got nothing but love and care for your baby who is in great aid of his needs growing up. Frustration comes in the picture. If only, so many if's, so many realizations that are too late as it seems. How are you able to run the race that life has set for you? There would come a time when the only thing you have seems partially clear because of too much emotions. You tend to blame the baby, less care, less of everything that you could ever think of.

Life may be unfair for you as a mother but never should be for the baby. Such an innocent face and looking straight at you and asked; "why mom? why are you treating me this way?". Now what? What would you do? Leaving him would make you life so much better. You have a bright future should you have been careful enough. Leave him now. No turning back. These statements playing up on your mind like a tune urging you to dance. But a mother dancer ought to choose the music that's right for her. STAY! Yes stay and face the reality, face the consequences, and dance to the tune life has to offer.

Having a baby may be tough, heartbreaking, and frustrating when detailed plan of your life fails. But it doesn't change the fact that there's no one to blame of this route but you alone. If you are a well planner and expert on what you think is right, then how come you failed? Face it. Run the race. Ace it. At the end, you will thank yourself that after all the trials and misfortunes you encounter in life, you are still a winner because you are able to draw, color, and present your masterpiece with dignity and pleasure that an artist would ever want to have!

Maureen Dy
A mother/writer sharing insights on how having a baby early in life can greatly affect your outlook in life. A must read article. Life changing and great realization for woman experiencing the same picture in their lives.

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